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Installation of Rabbi
Benjamin Sharff

Re'eh 5765 Sermon, September 2, 2005

Rabbi Robert Sharff, D. Min.

 

Thank you for your introduction. I begin tonight in prayer. First, because it is the rabbinic thing to do. Second, because I believe it will prevent me from breaking down into tears. You see, I have participated in the installation of many rabbis but this is the first time for my son. (Just in case I have brought this Texas size handkerchief.)

Mi sheberach avotenu vemotenu. May the God who blessed our mothers and fathers bless this holy congregation, together with all other holy congregations, their families and all who belong to them. Also, those who unite to form synagogues for prayer, and those who enter therein to pray. Those who give the lamps for lighting, and donated wine for kiddush and Havdallah, who give bread to the wayfarer and Tzedakah to the underprivileged and all who generously donate their time to care faithfully for the needs of the congregation. May the Holy One, praised be God, send blessing and prosperity upon the work of their hands as well as upon all Israel. And let us say, Amen.

This was a modern translation of a Mi Shebeirach prayer that is found in the traditional prayer book during the Torah service. It comes immediately after a series of family prayers. For right after the family, the synagogue is the center of modern Jewish life. Just like our families, we Jews adore and treasure our houses of worship. Here we find peace, love and direction. In these very pews we share both the joys and sorrows of our lives.

A few short years ago Rabbi Cohon and I participated in a rabbinic trip to Hungary and the Czech Republic. One of the goals of this small group was to visit the remaining synagogues and to meet with those trying to revive Judaism in a very challenging environment. In Budapest we visited the largest synagogue building in Europe. Rabbi Cohon sang a negun with its cantor. We spent Shabbat with the new reform congregation, Sim Shalom. They met in a converted apartment and together we experienced a Gates of Prayer book service in Hebrew and Hungarian. As I was the only one of the rabbis present that had the experience of starting a congregation from scratch, I was invited to speak and had the pleasure of hearing my words translated into Hungarian. These were good moments. But for me the real blaze of enlightenment came the next week in the Czech Republic down of Terezin.

Terezin is a walled village. Its apartments were constructed by the Austro Hungarian government to those the families of soldiers who were serving in a nearby fort. When Czechoslovakia was annexed by the Nazis, this place was transformed into a ghetto remembered best by the poem "I Never Saw Another Butterfly." Since the conclusion of the war, Czech workers moved into most of the apartments and Terezin is now a working class community complete with stores and schools. Just a part of one building was turned into a Holocaust museum and there is a cemetery and memorial just outside the walls.

For years people had searched for the ghetto synagogue of Terezin. Of course it was forbidden to have one, but rumors persisted that one had existed. The summer before our visit it was finally located. A merchant cleaned out his basement where he had always stored potatoes and, low and behold, there it was. How do we know this bare room was their synagogue? On the walls the inmates had beautifully painted all the Shabbat symbols and under each in bold black letters was the proper vocalized blessing. As we stood in the middle of this dim dank place we could close our eyes and visualize the service their rabbi, Leo Baeck of blessed memory, would point to the appropriate place and the congregation, just like here at Emanu-El, would sing the prayer. Imagine, on pain of death we Jews still created holy places of worship!

350 years ago when the Jews came to America we brought our families, our candle sticks our challah recipes and our dreams of creating new houses of worship. But in the United States formal religion was to operate under a different system. There was separation of church and state. Here religious people had to give an extra measure of their income to bring their dream to reality. And so we did. In Newport, New York, and Philadelphia synagogues were dedicated. So we new Americans had the building, the dedicated lay leaders. Now we needed Rabbis. At first we sent back to Europe and brought them over by boat. Then we decided to train our own. The congregations banded together and created the Hebrew Union College. The first campus was located in Cincinnati. (We have now added additional locations in New York, Los Angeles and Jerusalem). We needed students. Our founder, Rabbi Isaac Meyer wise, setup a recruiting system for men, and now women, that exists till this very day.

This is where my son Ben comes in. Ben was six weeks old when I applied for my first rabbinic position at the Ohef Shalom Temple in Norfolk, VA. I recall him taking a nap on the couch of the senior rabbi as I answered tough questions about rituals and Jewish practice. He was a big hit with the congregation. A few years later we moved to liberal synagogue in Baton Rouge. Here he began to attend religious school regularly and loved to dress up for Purim. I recall a homemade Superman costume with a shin on the front. His Bar Mitzvah sermon delivered at Congregation Jewish Community North in Spring, Texas was very well received. In addition to religious school Ben was a camper and then a counselor at our URJ Greene Family Camp in Bruceville, Texas (located just down the road from Crawford, Texas - but that is a different sermon). All in all, his favorite camp experience was the summer he spent in Israel. Ben was also active in the Texas Oklahoma Federation of Jewish Youth.

After graduating from high school he went off to Austin to attend the University of Texas. While there, we participated in Hillel and at some point decided to become a rabbi, so he did. During the course of rabbinic training he was involved in a wedding and met the love of his life, Joy Gur-Lavi, who was raised in Atlanta. They were married before his senior year. Joy's parents are wonderful people. In fact, Meir and Miriam are here in the sanctuary tonight. After graduation Ben needed a place to begin his career and, as a wonderful coincidence, Temple Emanu-El of Tucson was seeking a new assistant rabbi.

How to bring them together? American democracy has had an interesting effect on both the synagogue and the rabbinate. They are now under the control of the basic building block of the democratic way of life: the committee. The congregation has a search committee; the rabbis have a placement committee. So, your people talked to his people. A meeting was set up and now we are here. I know in my heart Ben will be a wonderful rabbi for you. He will use his education, talents and abilities to assist Rabbi Cohon and to serve Temple Emanu-El. He and Joy will love you and care for you. I ask that you will let him grow in his religious life and that you, in turn, will care and support his family. Temple Emanu-El is blessed with two wonderful rabbis. They fulfill a promise made to our prophet Jeremiah, "I will give you shepherds after my own heart, who shall nurture you with knowledge and understanding." As we say in Texas, "May y'all continue to grow from strength to strength."

We are a small family; most of us are here tonight so I invite you to join my wife Linda, his brother Micah, his aunt Barbara and Uncle Gordon, our machatonim Meir and Miriam Gur-Lavi mishpacah, Jasmin Levenson & Shirley Ward as we say a Shehecheyanu in honor of this moment.

Shabbat Shalom.